Questioning God’s Love

March 25, 2026

“What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:31-39)

 

If there were one word that might describe our world right now, it would be fear. Fear grips hearts, shapes conversations, and exposes how little control we really have. Moments of crisis remind us of our weakness, confront us with uncertainty, and make us feel the fragility of life in ways we often try to ignore. And when that happens, it becomes easy to slip into anxiousness and despair. So how should those who belong to Christ respond? How should we think when we are faced with suffering, hardship, or even death itself?

 

That is exactly what Paul is answering in Romans 8:31–39. He asks a series of questions, not because he is uncertain, but because he wants to press certainty deep into our hearts. He wants us to know, feel, and rest in the inseparable love of God in Christ. He does not want us questioning God’s love. He wants us assured of it. The big picture of Romans 8 is the assurance of salvation. The chapter begins with no condemnation and ends with no separation. Those who are in Christ Jesus are eternally secure in the love of God.

 

Paul has already laid the foundation for this in Romans 8:28–30. God is working all things together for our good, our conformity to Christ, and ultimately our glorification. He foreknew us, predestined us, called us, justified us, and will glorify us. That unbreakable chain is meant to put rock under our feet. And yet, there are many things that tempt us to doubt that love. Our sins accuse us. Our consciences trouble us. Suffering presses in on us. So Paul asks four questions to drive us back to certainty.

 

 

Question #1: Who Can Be Against Us? — vs. 31–32

Paul asks, “What then shall we say to these things?” and the answer is clear: God is for us. “If God is for us, who can be against us?” Christian, God is for you. He is not against you. He is ruling all things for your good. Outside of Christ, God is against you, but in Christ everything changes. For those united to Jesus, God is eternally and unwaveringly for them. So who can be against us? The answer is nobody. Nothing can ultimately oppose God’s saving purpose in your life. Trials may come and suffering may press in, but none of it can prevail.

 

And how do we know this is true? Paul points us to the cross. “He who did not spare his own Son…how will he not also…graciously give us all things?” If God has done the greatest thing imaginable, will He not also do the lesser? Think about it this way. If I were saving to take my kids to Disney World, spending money on travel, hotel, food, and tickets, and then we pull up and see a $25 parking fee, do you think I’m going to turn the car around and go home? No. If I have done the greater thing, will I not do the lesser? If God did not spare His own Son for you, He will not fail to give you everything you need to bring you safely to glory.

 

 

Question #2: Who Can Bring Any Charge Against Us? — vs. 33

Paul now moves from the cross to the courtroom. “Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect?” And the answer is nobody. That may not always feel obvious because we are accused on every side. Our conscience accuses us. Our hearts condemn us. Satan accuses us. The world accuses us. And yet no charge can ultimately stand. Why? Because it is God who justifies. When the righteous Judge declares you not guilty, that verdict is final. There is no higher court. The case is closed. Not your past sins, present struggles, or future failures can overturn what God has declared.

 

Justification is the verdict God pronounces the moment you trust in Christ. Your guilt is removed and you are clothed in the righteousness of Jesus Christ. That means God’s love for you is not based on your performance. It does not rise and fall with your obedience. Your acceptance is grounded in Christ alone.

 

 

Question #3: Who Will Condemn Us? — vs. 34

Paul now asks, “Who is to condemn?” If no charge can stand, then no condemnation can follow. We will never be condemned because we have already been justified. But Paul goes deeper and gives a Christ-centered answer. Christ Jesus is the one who died, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, and who is interceding for us.

 

You will never be condemned because Christ was condemned in your place. God will not condemn sin twice. He will not condemn Christ for your sin and then condemn you for it. Christ was raised, proving the payment was accepted. He is seated at the right hand of the Father, showing His work is finished. And even now, He is interceding for you, praying for your perseverance. Far from condemning you, He is pleading your case.

 

 

Question #4: Who Shall Separate Us from the Love of Christ? — vs. 35–39

Paul now turns to our hearts. He moves from God being for us to how deeply God loves us. “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?” This is Christ’s love for us, not our love for Him. Our love is weak and inconsistent. If our security depended on our love, we would have no security. Our assurance rests on His unchanging love.

 

So who can separate us from His love? Nobody. Nothing. Paul lists the very things that seem most threatening: tribulation, distress, persecution, famine, danger, even death. These are real pressures in a fallen world. But none of them can separate us from Christ’s love. Why? Because we did not create this bond. Christ did. And what Christ establishes cannot be broken, no matter how dark life becomes.

 

In fact, these sufferings are not separating us from His love. They are serving us. “In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.” Not just conquerors, but more than conquerors. Our trials do not defeat us. They are used by God for our good. They refine us, deepen our dependence on Him, and cause us to long for glory.

 

That is why Paul concludes with such sweeping certainty. Nothing in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. He searches for anything that might threaten our security and declares that none of it can.

So who can separate you from His love?

 

Nobody.

 

And that is where our confidence rests.